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just got back from golfing with wife and bak. Hrmmm... i am working on some wrong technique i played thruout. bak had been a good help giving me tips and pointing my mistakes. now i feel that i will adapt to what he taught me. Even though not used to it yet, his explanations has all logics and engineered to perfection. I definitely wanna train hard for this.

earlier, me and wifey head for hot drink before going back. during the hot drink session, we were talking abt christmas celebration, our wedding and stuffs like family matters. its been a while had open cum serious conversation with babs. babs felt cold when we walked thru the AC'ed sembawang shopping centre. The feeling of rubbing our hands together on the way there was priceless. Felt so much love, so much of everything.

Sent babs home, and really piti'ed her that she had to do up the chores. Bak is making noise already. nvm, tomorrow the iron MAIDen will come to the rescue. And i will be the mariah's supervisor. Woo Hoo!

When i reached home, bert chatted me up on MSN. he thanked me again and again for the help abt his engagement prep today. We then start to talk abt how we were there for each other during our stupid times. How NS changed peoples lives (we agreed that women should go thru NS), how extra careful we have to be as we enter a new stage in life. I seen the boy grew. Being with him when we were colleagues, i spend most of my time with him. I knew him 7 years ago. And i see him grow. In and outta trouble. (at most times he was lucky) He saw changes in me as well. The man who hates to talk abt marriage is happily talking non stop abt it. Thats what he said. I was touched when he said, "Sister in Law really loves u a lot."

He mentioned that he wants to strive for better things in life. He also ironed out that better things in life when he was 17 and now is way too different. Which is true. Now, being a man, widened ones view in a lot of aspects. He mentioned how happy he was doing the engagement things on his own. Cos it gives satisfaction. And that i have to agree. Good or bad... stylo or not, its from his own effort. And he tried. Thats where the satisfaction comes from. As a close fren, a brother, to him... i felt more than happy seeing him happy.

i asked him how he wanted to celebrate christmas this year. Cos he invited me and wifey to celebrate it together with him. He answered he wants to have dinner with us. Then chill somewhere like the beach area to talk cock. Some place to relax ....... Then perhaps do some gift exchange. He even imagined a year or two down the road, he wants to have this quiet, family like christmas house warming (with a small Xmas tree), chill by watching some DVDs, do some give exchange then go home. Something homely... thats what he said. And I thought that would be nice... provided he has his own house by then. But this boy had really set his vision far. hehe.... and that coming from him, i felt the changes in wong chee fei ver2.0.